Wedding planning, reimagined
The Home room · Rocky & Grace's wedding
I Do, so you don’t

You plan the wedding.
She carries the admin.

The admin runs to five hundred hours — a part-time job most couples carry alone. Iris takes it: she reads the post, holds the figures, chases what needs chasing and remembers everything, while every decision stays yours. The wedding planner is you. She’s how you become a great one.

247Days to go
87Guests kept
£11,425Held in hand
The work she carries

Three rooms, kept in perfect order.

Everything below is Rocky and Grace’s real wedding, running in the app right now — their suppliers, their figures, their eighty-seven names.

The post

Your wedding gets its own address.

Copy Iris in, and the invoice is read, filed under the florist, the deposit flagged, your reply drafted and waiting — the sort of evening admin you’ll never quite notice she’s spared you.

34Threads filed
The money

Paid, promised, and actually yours.

The whole ledger pressed into a real Google Sheet in your own Drive, refreshed whenever you ask. Facts, never verdicts — and never a surprise on the last month’s statement.

£18,900Held to plan
The gathering

Eighty-seven names, one calm sheet.

A guest list your caterer can open, the dietaries reconciled, the room drafted — and the two she’d keep apart, flagged before anyone sat them together.

87Guests seated
The inventory

Everything a senior planner carries — and then some.

Not a checklist handed back to you. Each of these is work she does, in rooms that already exist in the app.

Her post
Your wedding’s own email address. Every invoice and contract read, filed under the right supplier, and answered in a draft that waits for you.
The vault
Contracts, quotes and paperwork filed into an Iris HQ folder in your own Google Drive — a record you keep, whether or not you keep us.
The sheets
Your finances, your guest list, and a summary for your caterer — pressed into real Google Sheets and refreshed in place, every day.
The replies
Guests answer from a link — RSVPs, dietaries, plus-ones and song requests collected as they land, never chased twice.
The seating
The room drafted for you, dietaries reconciled against the kitchen — and the two she’d keep apart, flagged before anyone sat them together.
The welcome pack
Every supplier greeted properly — the venue, the timings, the day itself, gathered into one pack so nobody arrives asking.
The calendar
Fittings, payment reminders and the wedding morning kept in your own Google Calendar — added by her, owned by you.
The circle
Keys for the maid of honour and the mothers — each their own door, their own duties — and the hen behind one the bride cannot open.
The day
The order of the day built hour by hour as decisions land — so the morning itself arrives already written.
The memory
Something said in passing in March surfaces in June, unprompted. Her memory lives as readable files in your Drive — never a black box.
The sittings

Sit down for ten minutes.
Stand up with it decided.

When a chapter of the wedding needs deciding — the flowers, the attire, the costs nobody warns you about — Iris sits you down and walks you through it, one question at a time. No homework, no forty-tab research spiral.

Bespoke, not generic.
Every figure and suggestion is read against your venue, your region, your season and your budget — never a national average dressed up as advice.
Decisions, not lists.
A sitting ends with choices pressed and filed — not another checklist handed back to you.
Minuted for good.
What you decide is written into your record and remembered — it shapes every conversation after.
The minute of a sitting
The flowers
Sat for11 minutes
Decisions pressed3
Season consideredEarly April
Held against budget£1,150
Read againstCheshire · their venue
Garden roses over peonies for an April date — the same soft romance at a fraction of the price, and nobody at the wedding will know the difference. Filed, remembered, and £380 quietly kept.
The house after dark

She talks like a person,
because she listens like one.

Bring her the supplier who quoted twice, the seating argument, the thing you said in passing three months ago. She’s heard worse. She’ll know what to do.

Grace
The florist has quoted twice and the second one’s higher. Do I say something or just pay it?
Iris
Say something — kindly. The first quote, £640 from her email of 12 March, included the arch. The new one lists it separately. I’ve drafted a reply asking her to honour the original; it’s waiting in your post, in your voice. You’ll likely keep the £115.
Grace
You remembered the arch.
Iris
I remember everything you tell me. That’s rather the point of me.
She reads what you forward her.
Invoices, contracts, quotes — read, filed, flagged, and answered in a draft you approve.
She remembers across months.
Something said in passing in March surfaces in June, unprompted — kept in files you own, in your own Drive.
She never sends as you.
Every reply opens in your own mail app, already written. You read it, change it, send it yourself.
Powered byIris
The Iris wax seal
From the post

In their own hand.

No one tells you the wedding arrives with a second job attached. Ours did — until Iris took the post, the money and the chasing off our hands. Six weeks in, I went looking for the admin and couldn’t find it: read, filed, answered, sitting in our own Drive. For the first time since we got engaged, our evenings are ours again.

— Grace & Rocky
Marrying in April · Cheshire · [Draft — a real couple’s words replace this at launch]
Our vows

Built to work for no one but you.

Every other wedding app is paid for by someone else — advertisers, venues, data brokers. Ours is paid for by couples, so it answers only to couples.

i.
No adverts.No venue pays to sit at the top of your search.
ii.
No supplier kickbacks.Her advice is hers, never bought.
iii.
No data sales.Your guest list, your date, your budget — never a product.
iv.
Your record outlives us.Everything lives in your own Google Drive. Leave, and it stays yours.
How it begins

Three steps, then she takes it from here.

i.
Request your invitation

A name and an email. Every request is read by a person, and answered within days.

ii.
Connect Google, once

Her office builds itself inside your own Drive — and your wedding gets its own email address.

iii.
Copy her in on one email

Watch it come back read, filed, and answered in draft. That’s the moment most couples exhale.

Early access · By invitation

The months before the wedding
stay yours to enjoy.

Each place is reviewed personally, and every couple gets a planner who never forgets a thing.

Places are limited each season · Every request read by a person · We reply within days
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